Taking my own advice

I always tell my blog friends to write even when they don’t feel like writing. That the daily habit of writing actually keeps the juices flowing better than anything. So, tonight, when it seems I have nothing to say, I’m writing anyway. Together, we’ll see where this goes.

I haven’t taken many pictures this week. These pictures are from Monday when we went to my father-in-law’s and had supper.

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A kitten got dumped there and Tess loved it. Maybe she loved it a little too much. We did not take it home with us.

I just got home from Ladies’ Bible Study. We have such a great group of women at our church. Tonight we talked about friendship, about being a good friend. We were supposed to ask ourselves if we would want to be a friend to ourselves.

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I get so caught up in the busy stuff of our week that I feel like I rarely take the time to be much of a friend. If I’m stuck in the car on a long drive, I’ll reach out and touch one of them with a phone call.

I’m not very thoughtful either. I rarely remember birthdays (except for Facebook when I type happy birthday along with 300 other friends). I recently found out not only is my friend Ruthanne always uncomfortably hot at my house, but Suzanne suffers from this same misery when she visits me. Obviously, I isolate my friends by making them too uncomfortable to come over.

I didn’t know I was going to write about friendship tonight. Just look where your thoughts can go when you sit down at the keyboard.

On the way home tonight, which is what I really thought I would tell you, I was listening to a mystery book on my ipod. As I drove the headlights from other vehicles played with the shadows in my backseat. I glanced nervously in my rear-view mirror several times.

I thought I heard noises, back there, in the silence that is usually filled by noisy children.

As I neared my driveway, eager to finally be home around people, I turned on the blinker and accidentally also flipped the rear-window wiper switch. The squeak, squeak, thumpidy noise it made nearly made me wreck. I jumped a foot out of my seat and swerved to the shoulder.

I drove up my driveway sweating, embarrassed and nervously giggling once I realized it was only the rear wiper and not a murderer hiding in my backseat.

You ever do something when you’re alone and make a fool of yourself?

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  • http://amandatdodson.wordpress.com amanda

    i love that question – would you want to be a friend to yourself? never thought of it that way. i once thought i heard something in my car when i was by myself – i was convinced it was someone so i talked the whole way home explaining that i had children and a husband that needed me and a dog that no one would feed if i wasn't around. i obviously don't get out alone enough. :)

  • http://www.thejoyfulchaos.com Suzanne

    Aw. I didn't mean to make you feel bad. No isolation here, I just know to dress differently (though I must admit when I heard Ruthanne had brought her own fan I felt my own sense of freedom to bring one, since I can no longer wear sleeveless shirts due to the size of my arms) Whew. Just sayin'. You're a great friend. I would have you as one. Wait..

    So glad you opened up – I like the “nothing to write” writing – I should take your advice as well.

  • Talysa

    Hilarious! I did something like this just last week! I drove in from getting groceries and it was dark. Random porch lights and such were on around my house so there was just enough light to cast shadows. Our camper in at the end of our driveway towards backyard. I got out and started walking towards my garage. Stopped dead in my tracks. There was someone standing in front of my camper! I started to feel for the “panic” button on my keys! This hot rush of adrenaline came over me and my arms felt tingly. Who was this person lurking in the shadows of my backyard?!?

    Long story short after giving myself a near coronary…I am not exaggerating here…my heart was beating SOOO hard!…I discovered that IT WAS MY SHADOW!!! I WAS AFRAID OF MY OWN SHADOW!!!

    Can't believe I just admitted this. What can I say? You inspire me. :-)

  • Talysa

    No idea how I managed to insert a hyperlink into my comment. :-/

  • http://afamiliarpath.com/ Melissa Stover

    oh i'm glad i'm not alone. that's pretty funny.

  • http://afamiliarpath.com/ Melissa Stover

    i'm loving this. i'm not the only one who can manage to scare myself!!

  • http://afamiliarpath.com/ Melissa Stover

    it really does work. you never know what will show up on the page. i wasn't

    offended by your hotness. just made me aware of how inconsiderate i can be.

  • http://www.partofthemiracles.blogspot.com/ Beth

    Always.

    What book are you listening to?

  • http://www.perfectbydesign.blogspot.com inHistiming

    This is kind of like scaring myself, but a little different.

    Before homeschooling, my 2 older children attended a private school. My younger child was in preschool when my son was in K. One day I drove them to school, hung out talking a bit, then headed ot onto the main road home. Upon looking in the rearview mirror I noticed my daughter was not in her car seat. I said her name, no answer…said it LOUDER, stating that she “better get back in her car seat!” while pulling over to the side of the road. It was at about that time that I realized I had left her in her classroom at the church. I scared my self AND embarrassed myself, all while almost running over everyone on the road so I could pull over and get her back in her car seat. It was quite……interesting.

  • http://afamiliarpath.com/ Melissa Stover

    oh that's a good one!

  • http://www.othersuchhappenings.com marsha@othersuchhappenings

    No, never. Not even once. *cough*

  • Beverly

    The whole making-friends-uncomfortable thing goes both ways. I'm usually the one that keeps my house like an icebox and my friends turn into popsicles when they visit!

  • mellisarock

    I have absolutely let my imagination get the better of me when I am home alone.

  • http://www.ourhomeschoolhome.com/ Robyn

    You always make me think, Melissa! And this one, honey… you have me headed to my journal! Am I a good friend? I sure hope so, but not nearly as good of a friend as I should be.. I know. Do I scare myself? All the time. I'm such a silly girl when I'm alone. And forget it if it's raining – I'm hoping a friend will take me in!

    Glad it wasn't a murderer in your backseat.

  • http://afamiliarpath.com/ Melissa Stover

    me too!!